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This is clearly not the case, especially for those people who consider themselves versatile HIYA. But it ought not to be impossible to sexually switch things up. Sure, people have a preference, but now could be the perfect time to escape the top or bottom prison you live in. It could open up a world of possibilities. So how do you go about testing new waters? Miller argues that gay men should examine their relationship with power.
Where do you align when it comes to being dominant or submissive? One way to question this, he posits, is to approach something other than penetrative sex. If you received the kiss, you're the submissive one. There is no aspect of sex that doesn't have, at its core, an aspect of power. So part of the thing that you have to ask yourself is, 'What am I comfortable with?
Do I like initiating sex? Do I like telling my partner what to do, or do I like being told what to do? You might like taking your car for a service just as much as servicing it yourself. As Miller explains, there are outside forces that, dating back to the ancient Greeks, have prevented gay men from truly digging into what sexual behaviors we might actually enjoy. The ongoing fetishization of masculinity means that the traditionally submissive role of the bottom is associated with effeminacy.
Chris White, an expert in health promotion and the director and principal investigator of the Safe and Supportive Schools Project at the Gay-Straight Alliance Network in San Francisco, takes this one step further. So there's some shaming there. And it's feminine type shaming, as well.
Not only are you saying that it's more masculine to be a top, but you're saying that you should be ashamed to be a bottom. But as with everything sexual, these things are usually on a spectrum that is often contextual.
We like to pretend that there are, but they're not necessarily true. According to a study by The Journal of Sexual Medicine that surveyed 25, gay men in America about their last sexual encounters, only 36 percent said they had bottomed and 34 percent said they had topped.Top looking for an older bottom
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Top or Bottom: How do we desire?